If you are in a relationship that has become unfulfilling to you, perhaps itís time to throw in the towel and find happiness elsewhere. So how do you know when youíve reached that time?
Below are common signs that will help you figure it all out:
Do you fight more than you talk?
This is often a sign that a relationship is on the skids. When you stop communicating and start hurling insults at one another, you are breaking down what has made up the relationship the two of you so lovingly created.
If you can both sit down and actually talk it out you may have a chance at saving the relationship, but if the two of you arenít willing or able to do this, then itís time to call it quits.
Do you still spend time together?
At first, you probably spent a lot of time together, so much in fact that you may have taken things a bit too fast. Over time you may have found yourself drifting away from him.
While itís natural to go out with your friends and engage in social activities that donít include him, you should not spend more time with others than you spend with your mate.
If you are doing this, it may be a sign that the interest simply isnít there anymore. There could, of course be other reasons that are directly connected to the relationship the two of you have together.
Either way, you need to talk these problems out to see whether or not there is a solution. If you donít want to spend time with him anymore, then itís time to say goodbye.
Has sex become boring or have you stopped having it altogether?
Again, this may signify a lack of interest in one another or maybe even an attraction for someone else. If you are attracted to someone else, you need to examine your feelings for both individuals.
If you are thinking about the other person more than you think of him, itís time to separate. If you feel he might be attracted to another, you need to talk this over with him. The worst thing you can do is stay in a relationship devoid of trust.
The decision to call it quits can be a very difficult one, especially when you have shared something special with another person. Only you can decide whatís best.
Donít sacrifice your happiness just because you donít look forward to the dating scene again. Instead, embrace it with a positive attitude and the knowledge that you will find true love after all.