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10 Signs heís a keeper
If youíre wondering whether that guy you just met is worth getting serious about, donít drive yourself crazy over it. Instead, take a deep breath and consider the characteristics that make any man a possible keeper...

1. Honesty

You want someone you can trust and that means someone who can be honest with you and accept your honesty in return. If it seems like heís always trying to dodge the truth, you may want to think twice about him.

2. Hard Working

You donít want to have to worry about where your next rand is coming from or end up being the only breadwinner in the relationship. It doesnít matter what he does for a living as long as he puts a premium on having some kind of steady work.

That tells you heís dependable, which is an important trait in a partner.

3. Classy

Nobody wants to spend time with a boor. If he pays no attention to proper behaviour and making a good impression then you might want to think twice about him. A guy who takes the time to act properly is showing you that he respects you and nothing counts more.

4. Accepting

Nobody is perfect and the last thing you need is to be with someone who expects you to be. You want a man who can accept you the way you are and love you for it. This will make you more inclined to return the favour.

5. Focused on you

It sounds shallow, but really, do you want your guy constantly thinking about someone else? If he canít be bothered paying attention to you then he may not be worth your time and effort.

6. Shows he cares

Little gestures like calling to see how your day is going or sending you flowers for no special reason can speak volumes. This shows that you mean something to him and thatís the kind of foundation you can build a relationship on.

7. Comfortable to be with

In order to have a lasting relationship you have to want to be together and enjoy each otherís company. If you can share a laugh, have a conversation or just be content together without talking, thatís saying a lot about how well you mesh.

8. Dependable

You need to know that you can count on him, even in tough times. If he packs up and runs as soon as the going gets tough, itís going to make things that much harder on you.

9. Makes an effort

If he goes out of his way to show an interest in the things you like, thatís a pretty good sign. It means heís willing to compromise and thatís what a strong relationship is all about.

10. Emotional

No, you donít want him falling apart at the drop of a hat but you also donít want someone who is afraid to show his emotions. It takes a strong man to expose his innermost feelings. If he can do that with you, itís a tremendous sign of trust.

Donít just rush into a relationship out of desperation. Be patient and make sure that heís someone you want to keep in your life. With a little common sense, you can forget Mr. Right Now and find your Mr. Right!

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